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I Am Loved, Lovable, Loving …

How might your life be different if you believed that you are loved, lovable and loving? 🦋

Happy New Year 2020

2020, freedom from or freedom for?

Stop It

With each New Year Resolution that we commit to there are things we need to stop doing to create the space for the betterment of our life to take root. What will you stop doing in 2020? 🦋

Danger! Poison!

Many do not want to forgive because they have a misguided belief that by holding on to their anger, hatred or resentment is somehow punishing the other person. Wrong! That is not the case.

Rather, withholding forgiveness is akin to drinking poison with the hope that the other person will die. They won’t!

Forgive them for your own peace of mind, healing and freedom. You deserve to reclaim your power, your life. 🦋

Walk Away!

A toxic person is usually characterized as being insecure, self-centred, jealous, manipulative, domineering and controlling.

How do you know if you are in relationship with a toxic person? They tend to suck the sweetness out of your life and emotionally shred you.

The following are 10 common signs that a person is toxic;

🦋 You’re left feeling emotionally exhausted after spending time with them.

🦋 They try to intimidate, blame or shame you to get their way.

🦋 They try control you with guilt.

🦋 They easily anger and lash out.

🦋 They can’t take ‘no’ as an answer.

🦋 They see themselves as a victim, to garner attention and sympathy.

🦋 They give ambiguous back-handed compliments.

🦋 They have no respect for your boundaries.

🦋 They don’t take responsibility for their own feelings.

🦋 They are self-centred, uncaring and unsupportive.

Essentially, toxic people are not interested in you and your life. They are interested in how you can be an asset for them, how they can use you for their own benefit.

You cannot change them!

You deserve to have respectful, supportive and appreciative people in your life. Life is too short to spend time with people who don’t inspire you to be your best self, living your authentic life.

I hope you will use this post as a springboard to immunize yourself against the toxic people in your life, to walk away! 🦋

Fulfill It For Yourself

I think one of the most destructive beliefs we have about relationships is that our partner is responsible for meeting our needs. This belief is not only wrong, it is toxic poison, that destroys most relationships.

To be clear, he or she is not obligated to fulfilling your needs, you are. In turn, you are free from the nonsensical notion that it is your job to fulfill his or her needs.

However, and this is key for a thriving relationship, you are both equally responsible for meeting the needs of your relationship.🦋

The Currency of Success …

Discomfort is the currency of success in life, love and leadership. If you feel uncomfortable, out of your depth, overwhelmed or scared then know that you have inadvertently stumbled or intentionally pitched yourself out of your loathsome yet comfortable rut. You are on a life altering adventure, moving towards the light of where you belong, your brilliant life, career and relationship. Lean in, level up and just keep going. You’ve got this. 🦋

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