I think one of the most destructive beliefs we have about relationships is that our partner is responsible for meeting our needs. This belief is not only wrong, it is toxic poison, that destroys most relationships.
To be clear, he or she is not obligated to fulfilling your needs, you are. In turn, you are free from the nonsensical notion that it is your job to fulfill his or her needs.
However, and this is key for a thriving relationship, you are both equally responsible for meeting the needs of your relationship.🦋
Believing that everything is figureoutable is what keeps our dreams alive long enough for them to blossom into fulfillment. 🦋
Are you awake to your true nature, purpose, and the essence of your empowerment? If you are, then I know you are living your personal vision, an authentic, meaningful and fulfilling life. 🦋
Having a meaningful and fulfilling life is simply knowing what is really important for us to live a good life and then living it.
~ Judit e. Szabo
Write down the area of your life that most needs your attention right now, and then write out the details of your soul’s vision for this part of your life.
- What does it look like?
- How will achieving your goal change your life?
- How will it change the lives of those around you?
- When you reach your goal, when you fulfill that desire, what will you make room for?
Take a few minutes to write it all down.
~ Debbie Ford
Goals are a means to an end, not the ultimate purpose of our lives.
They are simply a tool to concentrate our focus and move us in a direction.
The only reason we really pursue goals is to cause ourselves to expand and grow.
Achieving goals by themselves will never make us happy in the long term; it’s who you become, as you overcome the obstacles necessary to achieve your goals, that can give you the deepest and most long-lasting sense of fulfillment.
~ Anthony Robbins