Nobody can protect you from that, and living alone won’t either, for solitude will also break you with its yearning.
You have to love.
You have to feel.
It is the reason you are here on earth. You are here to risk your heart. You are here to be swallowed up.
And when it happens that you are broken, or betrayed, or left, or hurt, or death brushes near, let yourself sit by an apple tree and listen to the apples falling all around you in heaps, wasting their sweetness.
When we change our inner world of thoughts and feelings, our newly aligned behaviour begins to effect our outer world and we awaken to what we innately know that ‘yes’ we are a spark of the divine creating the moments of our life. 🦋
Self-love is a divine illumination that liberates our hearts and minds to be an authentic force for the goodness of ourselves and others. It is the secret sauce for a beautiful life lived well.
Self-love is the transformative alchemy we are all searching for to fix our messy lives, to cast out the darkness from our hearts, to right our wrongs, to breakthrough the barriers of our misguided creations, to reimagine our destiny and to recommit ourselves to the infinite wisdom of our collective oneness – we are in this game together.
Patterns of behaviour very rarely change and they never lie. When you are choosing a life partner do so with the knowledge that what you are observing now you will be experiencing tomorrow and forevermore.
Choosing a life partner is perhaps the most important decision you will ever make because it will affect both the quality and the experiences of your shared life and the lives of your children.
In relationship matters, absolutely follow your heart that is overflowing with love, but also listen to your intuition and heed your keen observational intelligence. 🦋
When a woman respects herself, she intrinsically commands reciprocation and should she not receive it, she will invite you to step up your game or to step off of her playing field, as she would expect you to.
Should you mistakenly demand that she compromise her integrity, dreams or happiness for your own standards and needs, she will not hesitate to walk away, as she would expect you to.
An empowered woman knows that her every choice matters and that her best choice, regardless of how challenging it may be, is to act in harmony with her soul’s code and the whispers of her heart, as she would expect you to.
An empowered woman esteems her inherent worth, dignity and honour and she expects that your love for her will always champion her essential self, as her love for you champions yours. 🦋
The weekend stretches before us, beckoning us to slow down, unplug and replenish. When we hold our well-being sacred, we take care of our whole-selves; mind, body, heart and soul. As we respectfully attend to our needs, we refill the very vessel we serve from. Imagine stepping into the new week with overflowing vitality. Mmmmm.
If the vision you hold of your highest self … your best life … does not scare the hell out of you … it’s not the one … if it doesn’t fill up the hole in your heart … rock your soul … consume your thoughts … it’s not the one … keep crafting your vision until your whole being is on fire.
~ Judit e. Szabo
Here are a few questions you may want to reflect upon as we move into 2014. As you scroll through the manifesto, the questions that hook your attention are the reflections that you may want to ponder and then answer with your heart and soul. This year will be as grand, wonderful and awesome as you will allow.