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Swallowed Up

Life will break you.

Nobody can protect you from that, and living alone won’t either, for solitude will also break you with its yearning.

You have to love.

You have to feel.

It is the reason you are here on earth. You are here to risk your heart. You are here to be swallowed up.

And when it happens that you are broken, or betrayed, or left, or hurt, or death brushes near, let yourself sit by an apple tree and listen to the apples falling all around you in heaps, wasting their sweetness.

Tell yourself you tasted as many as you could.

~ Louise Erdrich, The Painted Drum

Authenticity Matters

In life, love and leadership, authenticity is the only currency that matters. 🦋

Today Floats Tomorrow

Today triumphs over yesterday and it floats tomorrow. Love today. Own it ferociously because your success and happiness can only bloom in the here and now. Today is what matters most. Carpe Diem my friends. 🦋

🎶 SING 🎶

Yes there is fear.

Yes there is isolation.

Yes there is panic buying.

Yes there is sickness.

Yes there is even death.

But,

They say that in Wuhan after so many years of noise you can hear the birds again.

They say that after just a few weeks of quiet the sky is no longer thick with fumes but blue and grey and clear.

They say that in the streets of Assisi people are singing to each other across the empty squares,keeping their windows open so that those who are alone may hear the sounds of family around them.

They say that a hotel in the West of Ireland is offering free meals and delivery to the housebound.

Today a young woman I know is busy spreading fliers with her number through the neighbourhood so that the elders may have someone to call on.

Today Churches, Synagogues, Mosques and Temples are preparing to welcome and shelter the homeless, the sick, the weary

All over the world people are slowing down and reflecting.

All over the world people are looking at their neighbours in a new way.

All over the world people are waking up to a new reality, to how big we really are, how little control we really have and to what really matters.

To Love.

So we pray and we remember that yes there is fear. But there does not have to be hate.

Yes there is isolation. But there does not have to be loneliness.

Yes there is panic buying. But there does not have to be meanness.

Yes there is sickness. But there does not have to be disease of the soul

Yes there is even death. But there can always be a rebirth of love.

Wake to the choices you make as to how to live now.

Today, breathe.

Listen, behind the factory noises of your panic.

The birds are singing again

The sky is clearing,

Spring is coming,

And we are always encompassed by Love.

Open the windows of your soul and though you may not be able to touch across the empty square,

Sing.

~ Richard Hendrick (Brother Richard) in Ireland

March 13th 2020

Life’s Secret Sauce …

Self-love is a divine illumination that liberates our hearts and minds to be an authentic force for the goodness of ourselves and others. It is the secret sauce for a beautiful life lived well.

Self-love is the transformative alchemy we are all searching for to fix our messy lives, to cast out the darkness from our hearts, to right our wrongs, to breakthrough the barriers of our misguided creations, to reimagine our destiny and to recommit ourselves to the infinite wisdom of our collective oneness – we are in this game together.

Happy Valentines Day! 🦋

I Am Loved, Lovable, Loving …

How might your life be different if you believed that you are loved, lovable and loving? 🦋

Love, Quest & Daring

Love takes off the masks that we fear we cannot live without and know we cannot live within.

I use the word “love” here not merely in the personal sense but as a state of being, or a state of grace – not in the infantile American sense of being made happy but in the tough and universal sense of quest and daring and growth.

~ James Baldwin 🦋

Love Guaranteed …

To be loved by another is a beautiful thing, however, the love of self is the real deal, permanent, perfect and guaranteed for life. 🦋

Odyssey, A Return Home

The return home to Self is an Odyssey, a journey of love, appreciation and respect.🦋

Fulfill It For Yourself

I think one of the most destructive beliefs we have about relationships is that our partner is responsible for meeting our needs. This belief is not only wrong, it is toxic poison, that destroys most relationships.

To be clear, he or she is not obligated to fulfilling your needs, you are. In turn, you are free from the nonsensical notion that it is your job to fulfill his or her needs.

However, and this is key for a thriving relationship, you are both equally responsible for meeting the needs of your relationship.🦋

Love Is

Absence fans the fire of true love. 🦋

My Compelling Reason?

The compelling reason for almost everything we do or not do is to feel one of our coveted feelings. What are your coveted feelings and what do you usually do to feel them? 🦋

Living In Love

Never give up on ‘being in love’. Never compromise your heart’s desire to love and to be loved deeply.

You weren’t born to settle for crumbs so stop accommodating your fears and start living in love. 🦋

Be The Love …

Love is love. 🦋

And They Lived Happily Ever After

When it comes to having a healthy, happy and thriving relationship, choose love, respect and appreciation over need.

Need, is a toxic poison that tends to create a jailer-prisoner dynamic that can destroy the ultimate destination of your relationship, ‘and they lived happily ever after’. 🦋

Why Not You?

So, why not you? If they can be, do and have what they desire, then why not you? How are you less deserving? 🦋

The One

How do you know if they are the one? You love them just as they are, you don’t feel compelled to control nor change them. They in turn love, respect and accept you as you are. 🦋

Hope Whispers

In our moment of darkness, hope whispers and love calls. 🦋

Forevermore

What you see is what you get!

Patterns of behaviour very rarely change and they never lie. When you are choosing a life partner do so with the knowledge that what you are observing now you will be experiencing tomorrow and forevermore.

Choosing a life partner is perhaps the most important decision you will ever make because it will affect both the quality and the experiences of your shared life and the lives of your children.

In relationship matters, absolutely follow your heart that is overflowing with love, but also listen to your intuition and heed your keen observational intelligence. 🦋

The Marriage Myth

Most people get married believing a myth that marriage is beautiful box full of all the things they have longed for; Companionship, intimacy, friendship etc …

The truth is, that marriage at the start is an empty box, you must put something in before you can take anything out.

There is no love in marriage, love is in people, and people put love in marriage. There is no romance in marriage, you have to infuse it into your marriage.

A couple must learn the art, and form the habit of giving, loving, serving, praising, of keeping the box full. If you take out more than you put in, the box will be empty. 🦋

Love Is All We Need

Happy Valentine’s Day! Whether we are in love or out of love, let us celebrate love, for love is all we need, love. 🦋

True Love

True love sets us free, it does not enslave nor abandon. 🦋

A Welcoming Heart

We do not need to seek out love for we are love, the life force that birthed and cradles us throughout our life time. When we welcome the fullness of love into our consciousness, we organically recognize our authenticity and a new vista of possibilities emerge out of the shadows. 🦋

True Love

True love is immortal, an eternal mystical power that lives in our heart in perpetuity. It never leaves. 🦋

Kindness Is Magic

Today create some magic, be kind in thought, word and deed. 🦋

2019 Awakening Aliveness

To face the dark night of our soul, we need to be willing to stand in the light, invoke love to dispel the illusions, to awaken to our aliveness, our truth, our authentic Self. 🦋

2019 Invoke Love

2019 is the year of synchronicity. The year of miracles.

Where there is pure love there are miracles showering our lives.

2019 Invoke Love. Witness Miracles.🦋

If I Say I Love You

I came here without a choice

I’m sorry I could never thank you

For saving me more trouble

I didn’t want any trouble

If you were given one more chance

Would you bring me back to life?

Bring me back into the light

Into the light

And let it shine on, let it shine on us

And if I say I love you, well, then I love you

And if I say I love you, well, then I love you

The innocence in your face bled out without a trace

You’ve won without an enemy, you’re ill without a remedy

As night bleeds into night, and I know I came off better than you

It doesn’t mean that I feel better

It doesn’t mean that I feel better

And let it shine on, let it shine on us

And if I say I love you, well, then I love you

And if I say I love you, well, then I love you

And if I say I love you, well, then I love you

And if I say I love you, well, then I love you

Show me your hands

Are they cleaner than mine?

Show me your face

Did you cross the line?

Show me your eyes

They any drier than mine?

Your soul survives

But peace, you’ll never find

And if I say I love you, well, then I love you

And if I say I love you, well, then I love you

And if I say I love you, well, then I love you

And if I say I love you, well, then I love you. 🦋

Endings & Beginnings

Love in its fullest form is a series of deaths and rebirths.

We let go of one phase, one aspect of love, and enter another.

Passion dies and is brought back. Pain is chased away and surfaces another time.

To love means to embrace and at the same time to withstand many endings, and many many beginnings – all in the same relationship. 🦋

Clarissa Pinkola Estés

The Heartbeat of Forgiveness

Compassion is the heartbeat of forgiveness.🦋

Eat Cake

Life is short, time is fleeting and poof it’s gone. Eat cake! 🦋

2019 Peace of Mind

Until you love what you think, there’s no peace in your world. 🦋

Your Souls Home …

Wait for the one whose soul feels like your souls home. Nothing less is worthy of your love. 🦋

SOULMATES …

No, a soulmate does not complete you — they inspire you to complete yourself.

A soulmate is the person who supports your direction, who motivates and encourages you to stretch, to change, to reinvent yourself until you are happy.

A soulmate is someone who loves you with so much conviction, and so much heart, that it is nearly impossible to doubt just how capable you are of becoming exactly who you have always wanted to be.

~ Bianca Sparacino.

Eyes Talk

Our eyes are windows to our heart. They reveal what we don’t dare voice. Eyes don’t lie. 🦋

Lovingly Unmasked …

Love takes off the masks that we fear we cannot live without and know we cannot live within.

I use the word “love” here not merely in the personal sense but as a state of being, or a state of grace – not in the infantile American sense of being made happy but in the tough and universal sense of quest and daring and growth.

~ James Baldwin

Your People

Your people, your tribe, love, respect and accept you as you are, no matter how you are, at any given moment. 🦋

Miracles

Love in itself is the miracle from which all things that flow with and through it are common everyday expressions of miracles.🦋

The Language of Love

The language of love is simply to listen, to witness without judgement. 🦋

Love the life you live …

Close your eyes and imagine the best version of ‘YOU’ possible. That’s whom you really are! Let the spirit of your authentic self pull you in the direction of the life you love to live.

~ Judit 🦋

The Fragrance of Forgiveness …

I believe forgiveness is one of the highest forms of love and respect in any personal or professional relationship.

It takes courage to say ‘I’m sorry’ and an even more valiant heart to say ‘I forgive you’.

~ Judit 🦋

2018 …

I’m walking into 2018 with a open heart and mind …

If you owe me, don’t worry about it, you’re welcome …

If you’ve wronged me, it’s all good, lesson learned …

If you’re angry with me, you’ve won …

If we aren’t speaking, its cool, I still love you and wish you well …

If you feel I’ve wronged you, I am so sorry, please forgive me …

Life is too short for prolonged suffering, pent up anger and holding grudges.

Love, forgive and move towards the light of new beginnings.

Happy New Year!

When A Man Listens

When a man can listen to a woman’s feelings without getting angry and frustrated, he gives her a wonderful gift. He makes it safe for her to express herself …

The Journey Is Not Always Easy …

An empowered woman’s journey is not always easy and yet it is during the challenging moments in her life that her empowerment deepens and flourishes.

Every painful experience makes her stronger and more open-hearted.

Every betrayal underpins her understanding of loyalty, friendship and love.

Every disappointment makes her wiser and more determined to live her dreams.

Challenges are an empowered woman’s platform to shine and be the beacon for empowerment for other women and men.

Do Love …

Do what you love. Love what you do.

Love, Light & Laughter 

May your day be filled with love, light and laughter.

What Would Love Do?

The answer you are seeking is inherent in the question, ‘What would love do?’

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Forgive Yourself First

Self-forgiveness is a positive admission to ourselves that we did the best we could with the level of consciousness and understanding that we had at the time of the situation. Forgiveness brings us peace, freedom and permission to move forward in loving kindness of self and others.

A True Friend …

Wondering who your true friends are? They are the beautiful brave souls who walk alongside us during the best and worst of times, love our light and accept our darkness, celebrate our successes and joy and most importantly they are the warriors in our lives who have the courage to step up to confront us when we are royally fucking up and then they suit-up to help us slay the dragons as we are righting our wrong. Because a true friend loves us completely and always, they will never abandon us no matter how rough the journey and never ever enable our bullshit.

The Power of Intention …

When our intention is engaged with the spoken word, we begin the process of creating a reality that awakens the beauty of love or the chaos of fear.

~ Judit e. Szabo

Jealousy Crushes Love …

 

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Jealousy is not love …

~ Judit e. Szabo

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