What you see is what you get!
Patterns of behaviour very rarely change and they never lie. When you are choosing a life partner do so with the knowledge that what you are observing now you will be experiencing tomorrow and forevermore.
Choosing a life partner is perhaps the most important decision you will ever make because it will affect both the quality and the experiences of your shared life and the lives of your children.
In relationship matters, absolutely follow your heart that is overflowing with love, but also listen to your intuition and heed your keen observational intelligence. 🦋
Most people get married believing a myth that marriage is beautiful box full of all the things they have longed for; Companionship, intimacy, friendship etc …
The truth is, that marriage at the start is an empty box, you must put something in before you can take anything out.
There is no love in marriage, love is in people, and people put love in marriage. There is no romance in marriage, you have to infuse it into your marriage.
A couple must learn the art, and form the habit of giving, loving, serving, praising, of keeping the box full. If you take out more than you put in, the box will be empty. 🦋