When it comes to having a healthy, happy and thriving relationship, choose love, respect and appreciation over need.
Need, is a toxic poison that tends to create a jailer-prisoner dynamic that can destroy the ultimate destination of your relationship, ‘and they lived happily ever after’. 🦋
How do you know if they are the one? You love them just as they are, you don’t feel compelled to control nor change them. They in turn love, respect and accept you as you are. 🦋
What you see is what you get!
Patterns of behaviour very rarely change and they never lie. When you are choosing a life partner do so with the knowledge that what you are observing now you will be experiencing tomorrow and forevermore.
Choosing a life partner is perhaps the most important decision you will ever make because it will affect both the quality and the experiences of your shared life and the lives of your children.
In relationship matters, absolutely follow your heart that is overflowing with love, but also listen to your intuition and heed your keen observational intelligence. 🦋
What we experience in relationship with others is a reflection of the relationship we have with ourselves. One of the most profound life lessons is that relationships are mirrors. They mirror back to us how we are feeling inside and the correlating energy we are emitting into the world. Remember, we can’t look in the mirror and frown and have the mirror smile; it is impossible. As it is within, so it is without.🦋
Certain ties cannot be broken. They define who we are and who we become. 🦋
No, a soulmate does not complete you — they inspire you to complete yourself.
A soulmate is the person who supports your direction, who motivates and encourages you to stretch, to change, to reinvent yourself until you are happy.
A soulmate is someone who loves you with so much conviction, and so much heart, that it is nearly impossible to doubt just how capable you are of becoming exactly who you have always wanted to be.
~ Bianca Sparacino.